Defy Gravity

Defy Gravity
"And nobody in all of Oz, no Wizard that there is or was, is ever gonna bring me down!"

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

"Breakfast At Tiffany's", Quotes, and Break ups

Last night Nick, Kayse and I went to Sonic. I'm not exactly sure what the purpose of our going there was, but I suppose it's because Nick was bored (even though he's already started school, he didn't have much homework to do.) So I met him and Kayse there. Then Nick got this brilliant idea of us all going to Wal-Mart (he wanted to go to Randall's, but Kayse and I both said no.) Nick drove us to Wal-Mart and when we got there we found our way to the Entertainment section. We started looking through a large bin of DVDs that were marked for $5.00 each. And that's when I found it: "Breakfast At Tiffany's"! My absolute FAVORITE Audrey Hepburn movie of all time! You have no idea how excited I was! And, fortunately, I had a five dollar bill on me at the time too, so I was able to buy it (if you've never seen "Breakfast At Tiffany's" I suggest you go to Wikipedia right now and look it up. It is one of the most beautiful, amazing love stories of all time!)

I've been really into quotes lately, especially quotes about moving on with life. I found this one website that offered a wide variety of quotes about heartache, broken hearts, moving on with your life after a break up, and just moving on with life in general. And I decided that since I have so many favorites, I would just post them all on here :)
"There is nothing more complete than a broken heart. For in the depths of the pain you will encounter the risen Jesus Christ." ~ Mark Brown
"When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven, for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal." ~ Anonymous

"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy. I'm going to laugh so you don't see me cry. I'm going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I'm going to smile!" ~ Anonymous

"There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go." ~ Anonymous

"I chose and my world was shaken. So what? The choice may have been mistaken; the choosing was not. You have to move on." ~ Stephen Sondheim

"Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons." ~ Pascal

"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together." - Author Unknown

"Hearts will never be made practical until they are made unbreakable." - Tin Man (Wizard of Oz)

"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were." - Anonymous.

"When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us." ~ Alexander Graham Bell

"Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts." ~ Author Unknown

"Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along." - Anonymous

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do." - Eleanor Roosevelt

"If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart." - Anonymous

"Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them." - Anonymous

"When you break up with someone, a piece of your heart is chipped away. But you know what? That just means that your heart will grow back twice as big, and then when the right person comes along, you will be able to love them twice as much." ~ Me

"The heart was made to be broken." - Oscar Wilde

So those are all my favorite quotes from this website. I'm sure that there are hundreds of other ones out there that are also good, but I don't have all day to search the Internet, looking for them. Anyway, I guess I should give you an update on how I'm doing. I'm okay. I've definitely seen better days, but I'm okay. My only fear is that I don't know what I'm going to do when I see him on Sunday at church. Part of me says I should go right up to him and slap him, but I also know that would only let him have the last word and it would show him how much he's hurt me. So I'm not going to do that; I'm not going to give him that satisfaction. I won't cry; I'm not going to let him see how much pain he's put me through. Instead, I'm going to give him the most evil glare I can make and then ignore him completely.

That's really the only thing I can do. And I don't intend to sit anywhere close to him. And if he even tries to talk to me... I'm not sure if I'll be able to hold myself back from trying to strangle him. I know this all sounds very dramatic and foolish, but I can't help it: I'm mad as hell, and I don't want anything to do with him. At least for right now. Oh sure, we'll go back to being friends, but that isn't going to happen for a long time. And I don't know if our friendship will ever be the same after this; I don't know how much I could trust him again, and I definitely don't know if I'll ever be able to think of him in the same way as before we started dating. This is going to be hard to get through; going from being in a close relationship with him to being "just friends" again is going to be the hardest thing I've ever done. But I'll get through it... I have to. I don't have any other choice if I want to be able to open my heart up to someone else again.

Well, that's all for now. Later, peeps!

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